Difficult Conversations

1. Whom do you address with this difficult conversation blueprint?
"(First name Second name)"

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2. What did you perceive? Be specific.
"The fact is (last week/yesterday/on day... at time) you did ___."

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3. Did your opponent say anything specific?
"You said ___."

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4. What did you feel?
"I felt ____."
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5. What specifically do you want your opponent to do?
"(In the future/Next time/Tomorrow) I would like you to do ____."

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6. Which pecific words do you want your opponent to say?
"(In the future/Next time/Tomorrow) would you please say ___."

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7. Specify which need you want to have fulfilled.
"Because I need ___."

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8. If your opponent says and does what you want him to do, what will be the positive consequence?
"As a consequence, we will (have/be/do) ___."

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9. Choose a background for your Difficult Conversation Blueprint

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